I definitely get this. I also find it difficult to do what feels best to me, and not let the expectations of other dictate what I do. So many people wonder why we are still in Canada, and each time somebody says something like 'why are you guys still here?', I feel like I am somehow letting them down by not traveling. So weird. Anyways, it is what it is and your friend is right. When the world doesn't call you, stay put. Interesting insights here, Matthew. It's always nice to know that others are experiencing similar feelings.