It’s ridiculous to say that somebody has a perfect relationship. Happiness and contentment come from within. If we can’t find it there, we won’t find it in a partner. I also saw an interview with Michele OBama once and she said that when the girls were small and she was taking care of them while Barack was building his career,, she was extremely resentful of him. I think she even used the word ‘hate’. We all go through rough patches, it just depends how you ride them out. I say this after also being divorced once!