You mention that people in their thirties are running away from something. What about people in their 40’s like us? Or maybe others in their 50’s or 60’s. I think you have generalized a lot here and I agree with the commenter above who hasn’t figured out if he is running away from something or running towards it. There is no right way to live this life. It’s best we forget about what others are doing and focus on ourselves. I’ll stick with the quote “What others think about me is none of my business.” Cheers.